5 Reasons Your Ceremony Should Be The Heart Of Your Wedding Day

When you think about your wedding day, what stands out? The dress? The flowers? The dance floor? All those details are beautiful — but none of them are why you’re getting married.

The ceremony is the heartbeat of it all.

As an officiant with years of experience (and countless tissues tucked into my sleeve for teary-eyed couples), I’ve seen what truly makes a wedding memorable — and it always begins with the ceremony.

Here’s why it deserves your full attention:

1. It’s Where the Magic Happens

The ceremony is the moment your partnership becomes a marriage.

You’ll laugh. You might cry. You’ll look into each other’s eyes and say, “I choose you.”

It’s not just the start of the day — it’s the start of your next chapter.

2. It Sets the Tone

A heartfelt, personalized ceremony invites your guests into your love story.

Whether it’s sweet and simple or full of shared traditions and readings, this moment tells everyone: This is who we are. This is what we’re building.

3. It Grounds You in the “Why”

Wedding planning can get hectic. It’s easy to lose sight of what matters. The ceremony brings you back to your reason — your partner, your vows, your commitment. It’s the breath of calm before the party starts.

4. It Should Reflect You — Not a Script

Your ceremony doesn’t need to be long or fancy. But it should be authentic. That’s why I spend time getting to know you, your style, and what matters most to you as a couple. From “Shine & Sign” simplicity to full custom scripts, we keep the love front and center.

5. It’s the Part You’ll Remember

The ceremony is often the most emotional and vivid part of the day.

Long after the cake is cut, couples tell me they remember standing under the trees, exchanging vows, hearing the words that sealed their bond.

That’s the stuff that lasts.

Your ceremony doesn’t need to be stiff or overly formal — it just needs to feel like you.

At North Star Vows, I believe every couple deserves a ceremony that shines with sincerity, love, and just the right amount of personality. Let’s create something you’ll remember forever.

💫 North Star Vows

Where every vow follows the North Star